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In this episode, I’m inviting you to pause and really ask yourself, what are you creating in your life right now? I talk about how to recognize when you’re in alignment and when something feels off, why your current reality can reveal what you’ve been creating, and how awareness is the first step toward building the life you actually want. I also share a personal story about going all in on She Created, moving through doubt and fear, and choosing aligned action instead of waiting for more signs or outside validation. If you’ve been feeling the nudge that something needs to change, this episode is your reminder to trust your inner knowing, stop running on autopilot, and take the next step.
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Welcome to the Abundant At The Top podcast,
I'm Brittany Fox your host!
the question I wanna post to you today is
what are you creating
what are you creating in your life
and what do you want to be creating
and
if you look at what's happening in your life right now
it'll show you what you're creating
by the fruits of what you see in your life
what's happening whether that's good
that's challenging it's indifferent
we create our own realities
I'm such a big believer
that we are the creators of our lives
and we have everything with within us
to be able to create whatever it is we want
I wanna talk today about creating your dream life
I'm such a big component of you
being able to create
whatever it is you want in your life
I think sometimes
when we think about the word manifestation
or creating or goal setting
however you want to word it is
we think that we have to work really hard
and then it's gonna come to us
and I believe it happens very differently
that's part of it working hard
putting the work in
and maybe that's not even the right language
because hard I mean
define your hard right
do you think that putting in the work is hard
or maybe when you are in alignment
you are taking aligned action
so it's actually easy for you
so where do we begin where do we begin
when we want to create anything in our lives
the first thing is we have to become aware
we have to know what it is we've been creating
and then what we wanna create next in our lives
and I'm thinking about I have a retreat coming up
it's the start of the New Year
it's in January the theme is alignment
and I have really been pondering this question
because it's the theme of
how do you know when you're in alignment
how do you know when you're not in alignment
I think when we're off of alignment or we're misaligned
that one feels pretty obvious to us
that our body is telling us something's not right here
that we have a gut check that we have negative emotions
and it just it's not resonating
it's not about challenges
we're gonna talk about that in a second
but it's about feeling misaligned
it's a it's a gut check
it's a knowing it's an inner guidance
often times we will numb this down and we can't hear
we are so busy doing that
we forgot to create that space to pause
to be able to come aware aware of are we in alignment
or are we misaligned right now
and if we're misaligned
we might not wanna stop and we might not wanna pause
cause maybe we even like what's happening
or what we're doing
but we know it's just not that season anymore
I know I talked to a lot of women last year
that
they felt that they were being called to something new
and they waited way too long to make that transition
they could feel it in their body
they started having just challenges that were not
I don't wanna say normal challenges
but that just weren't
they weren't growing them
in the way that they should be
I mean they
I all challenges end up bringing us some growth
but they just felt off they felt misaligned
because they were being called to something new
and maybe they hesitated for different reasons
because they were looking for certainty
they didn't want change
they didn't know if it was right
and I often think it's because
we don't create the space
to pause
to become aware of something new that we wanna create
or to hear that we're misaligned
so I think we often know when we are misaligned
our gut tells us our body hit our
our hits us our body tells us
our nervous system tells us
that something's just off right now
and when we're in alignment
don't things just flow can't you just feel the flow
you know
that you're doing what you're supposed to be doing
and you just have this inner knowing
that you are on track you're doing the right things
that maybe things aren't happening instantly
but you see the traction you see the progress
even if it's a tiny seed
I think the challenges
when we question those challenging challenge those
I think the challenges
when we start to question just the little things
that we feel like it's not enough
it's not enough progress especially as high achievers
we want massive progress we want massive growth
we want massive results
and we have to remember that these little seeds
are what make the hockey stick effect
and get us the big growth
and the big goals that we actually want
so when we are in alignment
we're in that flow don't you just love that feeling
and you ask yourselves often like
how do I keep this going how do I stay in alignment
and one of the things is becoming aware
becoming aware of where you were at in the journey
and to create anything that you want in our
in your life
you become aware and then you get really clear
what is it that you want what does that look like
and you get really clear you make this either a sparkle
you make this something that is very outcome driven
that is measurable so that you can see it
and then the journey begins
once you have your direction
once you know what you're supposed to be doing
and I can tell you for me
that this year is there's so much alignment
I've never felt more aligned in my life
and I know this because of my guidance
because of my inner knowing
because of my calling I don't need another sign that
this is what I'm supposed to be doing
I think sometimes we wait for the sign again and again
and the confirmation and God's like
how many times do I need to tell you this
before you start taking action
I've given you the signs I've given you the answers
when are you gonna stop looking for outside validation
and take the action that you know you should be taking
so when we have been called to something
and we start walking in it
we feel aligned that's when the flow happens
that's when we start to see our creation come to life
and I talk about my formula
the creation cycle this is where I believe
and how we create anything that we want in our life
it's becoming aware it's getting clear
it's doing the inner work
which is a whole journey in itself
and we will talk about in many episodes on this podcast
also the identity of becoming enough
you have to be worthy to receive and to create anything
it's not gonna just happen
I think that's why manifestation gets a bad rap
that you just sit around wait for things to happen
but you have to take action
and your action becomes aligned
when you first became aware
and you got clear because you know what to do
and it doesn't mean you have all the right answers
it doesn't mean you have the perfect plan
but part of it is pivoting
knowing that when you feel off
that that aligned action is no longer aligned
that you're not getting the results
and you can have this inner knowing
that it's time to pivot that's what you do
and when you're connected
you hear
and when you're creating space to listen to the creator
to god you know when it's time to pivot
with that aligned action
and you also better believe
that you're gonna have challenges along the way
so you're walking in alignment
I'm going all in I've burned the boats
the bridges whatever the saying is
and on Monday it's now Thursday of the week
on Monday
was my first full day being all in with she created
when I say all in I mean I am all in
this is where my time is going
I'm no longer in the day to day operations
of my other company Focus GTS
my tech staffing company
I've ran for the last eight years
with my husband Dave
I am now full time dedicated to building this community
and on Monday I had all the feelings
I had all the emotions of excitement fear crept in
the doubt kind of popped in
and I just quickly
and I was very proud of myself for being like no no
you know what you're doing
you know what you're called to be doing
of course you're gonna have feelings
of course you're gonna have doubt and fear
but sometimes we have to be our own best cheerleader
I didn't need another word
I didn't need another confirmation
I've had so many seeing the impact of this community
of the women who need these rooms
to feel seen and heard and inspired
because when you get around women who inspire you
you know how to take your aligned action
you start taking action because you know
sitting around waiting for a feeling is not the answer
so you start taking action
so I quickly reminded myself
this time
that I'm doing exactly what I'm supposed to be doing
so get out there girl and go do it
so the rest of the day
I continue to take my aligned action
I have an event coming up
it's actually tonight I'm so excited about it
I can't wait to get them plugged into the community
to help them on their journey
get connected to other like minded women
who are on the journey of impact
and really making a difference in this world
so I started you know
the doubt crept and I was like oh my gosh
what if no one comes and all the thoughts
all the feelings and I was like no
it doesn't matter if one person shows up
that is why I'm here I'm here to serve
I'm here to create community
and it'll be probably maybe even more impactful
cause her and I will have an incredible conversation
so I was able to change my mindset on Monday
took my aligned action did some outreach
thought about some women who I know
have been wanting to come to one of the events
and I woke up on Tuesday morning
I kid you not with over 10 RSVPs
and I was just like wow
because I also became unattached to a number
to a number of oh
I need so many women here at the happy hour
and then I'll be successful
I said no
if one woman shows up and so
when we also
are going to create anything in our life that we want
we have to be unattached to the goal
the outcome we have to trust that we're in alignment
that whatever is meant to be for us will be
and what's not will not be for us
and so
I'm just reminded that when we are creating anything
to surrender the process
to be connected to our own alignment
and to take our aligned action and trust the process
when you are in alignment
so today I want to leave you with this thought
what are you creating in your life
do you know are you running on autopilot
are you just doing what you think you should be doing
by your gut
and your heart is telling you something different
I'd invite you to pause
maybe even right now during this podcast
just pause stop the podcast
just really connect with yourself
and see where am I misaligned right now
what do I know I should be doing that I'm not doing
you don't need another sign
you don't need another motivation
you don't need another friend to confirm it
and if you do here it is go
go do what you know you're supposed to be doing
and I'll see you on the next episode
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